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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:actually I have a serious matter my ex boyfriend used to abuse me mentally physically verbally and emotionally ,,I put restraint order on him and yet he violated it after few weeks then now he contacts me every time we break up after a huge trouble like him slapping or calling me names and promise he will change and he never does and when I reach the point that I can't go on that he tries his best to keep me with him and when he fails he does nasty things like calling me bad names and slap me ...last time which was before few days he was trying his best to make an official engagement when we both come back ,,I didn't accept that cause I found myself can't be with some one like him yet he promised to fix everything even with my parent who really hates him.When it also failed he locked me in the room and prevented me from escaping his hands then he started threatening me of posting videos that I don't know when did he took them of me having sex with him I asked him to show me he said he keeps some in his phone but he didn't let me see it .then when I got scared I fainted and when I woke up after few minutes I found him lying next to me and begging me to stay and when I questioned how come he did that videos he said he was lying to me and that I made him lose his temper as usual but then I refused to stay he started yelling and threatening me to scandal me of these videos,,then he left after us slapping each other ,,after an hour he sent a message that he will do nothing to harm me and that he doesn't forgive me for me ruining his life yet he is the one who did that !! then I sent me either then he sent a message like I wish you good life and don't play people yet I never.My question now do you think he has videos of us having sex cause I really wonder how he did that when we was living at my place and he didn't show me them...secondly will he try to contact me again when he comes? he is coming after few days P.S he did contacted me every time I break up with him but this time it was really huge cause it is the first time of him threaten with me having videos and he knew that I'm about to get engaged for some one else that's why he was rushing our engagement as soon as he can yet he wasn't ready for that financially but he kept asking to drop it and he will handle it ..To be more honest each time he calls after few weeks I reply his messages and get back to him cause I'm scared of him so does that mean he will again ??? I'm sorry but I'm really scared
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 Is it possible he could be lying about the videos or the pictures? Do you know who would he show these to?
What would be the worst thing that could happen from people seeing these videos?
It sounds like the WORST thing that could happen stopped. You stopped seeing him. Get some legal advice AND some counseling.
Time to break all contact with him, get a restraining order, and possibly move.
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