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Question - (9 June 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ittleun writes:

How do women feel having a short guy? To me it bothers me here or there. Has we are all the same lying down. But what if the guy has some hangups about his height being shorter than his partners how would you feel?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

I don't know how it started or where the idea came from but lots of women, more often the taller ones believe the size of a man's package is relative to his height. Hmmmmm? I guess dissapointment is easier to swallow(no pun intended) when they find out that big hands, big feet, and an equally big frame doesn't always mean a big penis. With that being said, the reaction from the ladies is priceless when they see that my 5'4 frame is the only thing small on me, hahaha!

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A male reader, Fed Canada +, writes (9 November 2010):

Short Man Syndrome or Napolean Syndrome is a cheap creation by tall people. Tall women often use it as an excuse against short men they can't walk all over.

Tall people who use their height as a defense mechanism or feel the need to protect their image in the company of shorter people have Tall Man Syndrome or Tall Woman Syndrome. People like this can be cut down on a dime because they have nothing else going for themselves but their height.

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2009):

lovehate agony auntPersonally i have a thing for tall men, but that's just me. I don't think many woman care unless he is shorter than them. I've gone out with a very short guy, ( i am just 5ft4) and he was basically the same height. Personally for me, this was a big turn off and you could tell he had a lot of emotionally hang ups because of it- but i'm sure it isn't a problem for some women. Every one has different preferences.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009):

Personally, I didn't like it because Im going on 6 foot myself and the main problem did come from lyin down if u get what I mean! But that doesn't mean there isn't someone out there for u at all, some girls won't mind in the slightest and other girls are petite themselves so don't worry about it

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A female reader, katiek Isle of Man +, writes (9 June 2009):

personaly i dont mind short guys its easyer to hold eahc other and you odnt look like a child compaird to him when your out and about. i wne tout with this guy who was 6"5 he was nice and all but it was weird when we were together. also i find that sex is easyer and in most cases better with a shorter guy

so dont worry about it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009):

As there are men who like short women and men who like leggy, tall women, there are bound to be women who like both tall and short men. There is no one opionion for all women.

Since relationships need compatable on several different levels, those men should simply find women who want to be with a shorter man.

Everybody has insecurities, but as long as he's not constantly moaning over his height then there is nothign wrong with it.

Are you with someone shorter? What is the motive behind this quesiton?

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A male reader, holikdad United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

Most short guy's have what I call "Short man's disease". It's where they like to puff up and out due everybody because they feel they need to compensate for their lack in stature.

Most wouldn't make a good long term relationship partner.

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