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writes: I coached my GF for 3 yrs b/f we got together. All those 3 years, she was best pals with another girl. The 3 of us would spend lots of time together away from sports. I made vague passes at both of them all that time. They are both lovely ladies. GF was breaking up with her man, I swooped in, and 2 yrs later, still together. I do love her, and shes desperately in love with me. for about a year, the "pal" was pal as before, then she drifted away. from my girl. I continue to coach them both...and pal and i would lock eyes often. twice ive put a hand on her for one reason or another, and she placed hers right on top of mine as if to keep it there, to remember it better. She acts quiet and detached when my GF is around. Acts same with me around.PROBLEM is...I have the hugest, raging-est, strongest boner for the pal. have since the day i met her. her body puts me in shivers and her smell excites me. i honestly think often about cheating with her, and let my brain find ways to get away with it or live with the consequences.am i f-cked or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, cowlick28 +, writes (7 November 2005):
......You are if your girlfriend finds out!!!
I'm a naughty girl and often have thoughts of committing adultery, but i've been there and it's not a nice thing to live with, especially if you truly care for your partner and also if they are madly in love with you.
I can only advise you what i know worked for me..... get out of the relationship and start letting off steam. You obviously don't want to be tied down, you have gone for the closest person to a young girl (her mate) which means you are desperate to get out as you're feeling trapped.
Just get out and sow your wild oats - it's obvious that you are in desperate need of it. Then when you've got a few notches on your post you will no doubt find another nice girl and settle down with her......... well that's what most men do isn't it? lol
Take care :)
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (7 November 2005):
 Think what you want first. Think about what other qualities these girls have that you would treasure in along term relationship. Would you respect this 'pal' if she could do that to her friend?
As for your boner, get rid of it when you go for a pee, or if you have a sexual relationship with your girlfriend use it on her. It is OK to fantasize about her friend, but go any closer than that and yes, you will be fucked as your conscience will never let you forget the betrayal, and the 'pal' could be vindictive enough to trash what you have left. Take your brain out of your pants and back in your head.
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