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writes:i was seeing this guy, we went out a couple of times and ive never felt so in tune with someone. even though we where different, it was a way that we could complealty compleament each other.well he moved away. but we decided to remain friends. things been quite strained lately but i dont mind. for some reason i know is not the end of us, but that its time we both need. and that we will meet in the future.why do i feel this way? should i just ignore this feeling? Reply to this Question
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reader, BunnyAce  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 I felt this way before. I met a guy at the beach while i was with my family. We spent the week together and i can't even explain how much chemistry was there when we would kiss. He lives 12 hours away. We said that we would roadtrip to see each other whenever possible. That was three years ago, i still have yet to see him. He even got a girlfriend a few months after our summer. We are friends on facebook so i would see pics of them, but in each pic, he still wore the necklace i gave him. (i told him to wear it and think of me). I knew he still cared. Time passed, she broke his heart and i ended up meeting an even better guy that i have been with for 1 year and a half.
Bottom line, you are going to miss him, and it is going to to hard because you obviously both like each other. But when distance is there it messing with emotions. I say, if he makes the effort to come and see you, there is hope. If not, don't let it get you down, experience other people. You will be surprised, love works in random ways.
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