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writes:My boyfriend and I are thinking about trying anal sex. I'am happy to Try but Iam worried about making a mess or something. Are there any good tips anyone could share with me? Would it be unsafe to take laxatives or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): Lube, and tons of it! My boyfriend loves it. I tolerate it. lol Before you have anal sex don't go eating tacos or other tough on the bowels foods. Don't take laxatives! Anal sex stimulates the colon, meaning it makes your butt think it wants to poop. Laxitives that make you need to poop and have less control over your bowel movements are a bad idea! Relax! Thats the hardest part. If your all tense and he's pushing it in, its gonna hurt bad. Just breath slowly while he slowly eases it in. Tell him if its too deep or hurts! When Im just not feeling it, I let my boyfriend put just the tip in while he masterbates. He likes at almost the same and Im not uncomfortable.
Take it easy at first. If you like it even a little you can always try again. If he rams it in and makes you cry than you probably wont be doing it again. make sure he knows that!
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (21 April 2010):
 I'm not gunna sit here and advocate taking laxatives, tho if you do, make sure they are at least a herbal one and taken with enough time to cause them to work.
No need tho, ... Pre plan ahead to let nature take it's course, and if the timing is not right on the day, then you simply call it off. Sometimes I have planned days in advance for when we know we will have a lot of time, ... and get's to hours away and I pull the pin. I like to know everything is good to go, and have never had the slightest hint of a single mishap.
Beyond making sure the plumbing is in order so to speak and at least several hours ahead of schedule, (depends on you own body tho and what patterns it has) the most I have ever done is perhaps monitored what I eat a little. Like eating light earlier in the day, avoiding any 'noxious' foods or drinks for a couple of days prior, ...and that could be anything that does not sit with you well, not just onions, egss, beans, that sort of stuff. Eg, for me that would be alcohol and milk.
Some people use douche's or enema's, .. tho again, this is not neccessary if you know the plumbing is good to go. From what I have read tho, that too is reccomended at least a few hours prior. A shower or a bath tho would be good, ... as applies to any sort of sexual activity.
You probably know the other do's, ..but just incase, ... take it slow, gentle, make sure you are very relaxed, an orgasm by other means prior does wonders, ideally be in a controlling position or have it clearly understoood that your guy is to follow your instruction through out, even if stopping is one of them, ..and lube, lube and more lube.
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 i wouldn't worry about the mess. ive done this only a couple of times and both times there wasn't much mess,only a tiny bit. Just make sure you use the toilet like half an hour before. i have to advise though that it is stupidly painful unless you use lots of lube and get him to go in straight and slowly. The last time i did it was so painful that i just wanted to lay there and not move for a couple of hours but thats coz we didn't do it right. Once you get going it is quite nice....strange but nice so yeah i would say try it but try to do it properly if you get my gist :)
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