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*brahim Thomas
writes:I've met this girl on phone,but hadn't seen her then. We fell in love when we eventually met,I felt it. However,there's the case of long distance rearing its ugly head. What's been bothering me lately is the strange attitude she had adopted;at times,I call her line and she just won't pick it. When I asked her why,all she could say was that she did that to see if I really do care about her. She once told me she was "a little bit angry with u." She still didn't tell me how I offended her,later on saying it was just a "joke." As we live distances apart and our love sharpens,I get doubting feelings regarding her. What am I to do? Why is she doing all that? Does she love me at all?
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reader, Ibrahim Thomas +, writes (30 August 2010):
Ibrahim Thomas is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSamantha,I really am grateful for your inspirational answer. It takes a whole lot of searching to discover people of your caliber. Once again,thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): It sounds like she is being a little bit immature and is playing games with you. Do you think you could tell her how her actions are making you feel? She may think she is "joking", but it is clearly not a joke to you. Maybe if you told her how it is upsetting you, she might stop doing things like that. Surely if she loves you, she would not want you to feel upset. And if she is angry about something, she needs to tell you what it is. You cannot read her mind, so it is her responsibility to tell you if there is something bothering her. So my advice is to try talking to her about this. Tell her how it is making you feel, explain that she needs to try and be more open with you, and see how she responds. Good luck. x
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