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Are we too close after just 3 weeks of dating?

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Question - (31 August 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2015)
A female Cayman Islands age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi All,

I really need a different perspective on this as this is on my mind a lot. "Andy" (fake name) and I have been dating for two months. It's that story of an immediate connection, talking for hours and intense chemistry. He's gorgeous, funny and so smart I just can't believe it. Yesterday, he introduced me as his "lady" and I melted. We were intimate after three weeks of meeting and now, although we go out we enjoy cuddling and watching movies together. He's met my siblings and my close friend and looks forward to meeting more. We joked about me scavenging for embarrassing baby pictures when I meet his parents. We love holding each other when falling asleep-He told me that those are times he absolutely loves and looks forward to. I do too! It's already a given when we make plans etc that we include each other. But, have we moved too quickly? I'm so scared that becoming so close so fast may have repercussions later. I just don't know. It pains me to think of even hurting him already. Can anyone give me their own experiences/opinions on this? Thanks!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (31 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think you need to worry about a time-table here. If it happened all organically and feels right, I think it's a good thing.

I think the more time you spend together getting to know each others likes, dislikes, quirks, morals, values, hopes, dreams, ambitions the better.

It's NOT like you can turn back the time and have a do over, is it?

I think at times two people meet and just click. It's not very common but it does happen.

Enjoy it, don't question it too much is there REALLY aren't anything to question.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2015):

GO for it. There are no limitations on how slow or fast a connection between two people can be made. If you and him are enjoying each other's company, then look for success instead of looking for a way out. Good Luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2015):

sometimes lovestrikes like a thunderbolt out of tbe blue and there is no reason to say this cant happen to you. If you enjoy the things you do and the plans you make, perhaps you have found a great love mate. Just watch to see if love grows over time,does he still light up when you smile?It maybe a love made at first sight,one youboth wont give up without a may look back years later with great hindsight and say the day you noticed me started the rest of my life..onewith true friendship and hopes unparalleled..i

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