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writes:are all guys adicted to really checking girls out when they are with someone else or is that just natural Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): I think it's a learned behavior and both men and women do it, or not, depending on how they were brought up. If they lived in a family that talked about other people all the time, it's been with them for a long time and is a pretty hard habit to break. For people that do it, they don't mean anything by it and mostly don't even realize they are doing it.
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reader, sexlessintheuk  +, writes (14 September 2009):
 Unfortunately once you've started noticing this it's hard no to obsess about it. I got really wound up when I realised my husband did it. Solution: Make sure he sees you having a good look at any attractive man when you are out. It'll really piss him off. Point made.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): General disrespect for his partner and wanting something different if you ask me
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents + ♥, writes (14 September 2009):
 It's just human nature, in both genders. Don't worry about it.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 September 2009):
Yes, but don't immediately assume that in checking out every girl he's also lusting after her. It's just plain rude if he does it obviously though. It's not so much an ingrained habit as just something everyone, especially every guy, does. I assume you notice almost every guy on the street, check them out, give them a quick once over, and decide how you feel about how they look. Does that mean you're actually lusting after them or imagining them naked? No, no it does not. It's just sort of a, hey let's people watch. Also if a beautiful woman walks past you'll notice that it's not just the men looking. It's sometimes just kind of hard not to look. You can find someone beautiful but not be lusting after them. So can guys. You'll know you have a good respectful guy if when a gorgeous girl walks past he keeps walking forwards stony-faced and then promptly walks into a door because he's trying so hard not to look.
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reader, miss anne thrope + ♥, writes (14 September 2009):
i'd call it more of a habit, than an addiction.
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reader, britt429 +, writes (14 September 2009):
 No, I don't believe so! I have been with both types of men. One's whose head spins around when a pretty girl walks by and the other who had enough class, that it was as if he had blinders on when we were out together!
And I might add that the guy with all the class, was Georgious, but seemed as though he didn't know it! He would get stares from men and womem alike!
I think it's consideration on a mans part to have the respect for the woman he is with!
It's class, and respect!
We all look at the opposite sex but to do so in an obvious and obnoxious way is a huge turn-off to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Ingrained habit.
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