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Are all the compliments I get just a ploy to get me in bed??

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Question - (23 March 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi there. i really dont want this to sound self-obsessed, im just genuinley curious. Whenever i meet a guy, they always say im the fittest person theyve ever seen and how nice i am. i was just wondering is it just a ploy to get me in bed that they say to every girl they meet or do they actually mean it? it has got to the point where i just take no notice of compliments cos i dont believe them!

help plz..xx

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (27 March 2006):

tux agony auntTake compliments from a guy with a grain of salt.. if it's a good friend, it's fine.. unless they too are trying to get into your pants.

on a side note, do not ask your boyfriend how you look. either way they answer is not what you'd want to begin with :)

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A female reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (23 March 2006):

PrunellaGringepith agony auntNever take a compliment seriously from a man who is trying to get into your pants. What else do you expect them to say? 'You're alright but your mate is fitter'? If you want an honest opinion on your looks ask your most honest friends, or a neutral male like a cousin or something.

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A female reader, twiggie_04 +, writes (23 March 2006):

twiggie_04 agony auntmost boyz at certian ages really feel the need for sex as the mates are doing it they feel cool about it dont take no notic but if you decide to give one of them a chance maybe one you really like take your time with it make them feel that you are buying it give them a taste of there own medicane you will see the change i bet all my love twiggieXxX

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