A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi i need some advice on guys! Most people say that guys are simple and straight forward, if they like you they will show it or they will tell you or tell someone (e.g your or his mate) People say they dont mess around and say they dont when they do because they;re shy or scared. But i have to ask are some guys actually to shy to admit it even to a mate and end up saying they dont.Its just for a while now i;ve been friends with a guy, we havent always got on well as people didnt like us being friends in the past. However since all that we have become better friends and if i ask him to come on a night out or somewhere with us he will come but we dont talk. He will talk to everyone else fine, sometimes it can come across to me as quite negative as he just goes to them as if he just cares about them. But people have said sometimes he seems shy around me but other times he doesnt. He has also said to my mate that he just wants to be friends. Its strange because one minute he will talk to me fine and the next he wont.However he liked this girl afew years ago and a mate of ours asked him then if he liked her as it was pretty obvious and he said he didnt. He denied it. Dont know why and tbh i dont really care.But anyway thats just background info incase it helped you out abit. Im just wondering are all guys simple and striaght forward with what they want or do some hold back through fear and other stuff?
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Everyone is different. There is no pattern.
A
male
reader, Kama  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Guys are every bit as diverse as girls. Culture is most of what tells you they are not.
...............................
A
female
reader, juno* +, writes (15 June 2010):
it really depends on the guy, and what kind of reputation he has. there are guys out there who play with our feeling and others who try to get us to like them by being hard to get, and there are the ocasional shy guys. All i can suggest is that you shouldnt be too clingy and just be kinda and nice to everyone that way when ur brought up in conversation only possitive things are said about you and this will make guys fall for you because guys want what other guys want. good luck ;)
...............................
A
female
reader, Auntie E  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 To answer your question yes some guys are simple and straight forward and some are shy and hold back. It's as simple as that. That's just not guys either - that's people in general - all about personality. I don't think this guy is "shy" I think he's immature and likes to play games. What is he 12? You should not have to be going through all these gyrations to find out if he likes your or not! He says to your mate he "just wants to be friends and then one minute he will talk to you and the next he won't!? He liked a girl a few years ago and it was obvious that he did but when questioned about it he denied it?!" Huh? Do you really want to be bothered with a game player like this? Way too much work! Find another guy.
...............................
|
