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writes: i've only ever been with circumcised boys, but my new bf isn't. i want to go down on him, but i'm not sure how it's different. i was always pretty good at giving hand jobs to my other boyfriends, but it's hard for me to make him come with just my hand ... i feel like i'm doing something wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006): When he's uncircumcised, in my experience, the foreskin doesn't automatically retract when the penis is erect, but can be pulled back with your hand. The smooth skin underneath is usually much more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis, as it spends most of its time protected by the foreskin. Be gentle here, therefore, and make sure you pay attention to the most sensitive part - the stringy bit where the pulled-back foreskin attaches to this smooth part, on the underside of the penis.
If you want to go down on him, it may not be necessary to pull back the foreskin, but it might be nice to sometimes gradually work up to pulling it back and then circling the smooth head with your tongue before putting it in your mouth. Be confident, imaginative and have fun!
Most importantly, communicate - ask him to tell you what works for him: what, where, how fast, how hard, etc. He'll think you're great, you'll perfect your new technique, and you can return the favour when it's his turn to do the work...
One warning though: make sure he washes under his foreskin before you treat him to this. It is much, much nicer for you that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006): no - that's the thing - his foreskin doesn't retract.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (8 March 2006):
 Not much difference when hard, just appearance when soft, so dont worry about it.
Not sure why it is difficult to make him come with your hand , this maybe something to do with him and not you so dont worry.
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