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writes:Me and my lover have been steady and happy for almost a year, but there is a problem. I love what he does to me, but I can't tell him when I want to, or what i want him to do to me. I kinda just hint my way through it, but more often then not, by no fault of his own, he doesn't get the message. I know he loves doing stuff to me, i just dont feel comfortable asking him to. I love him dearly, trust him completely, our relationahips is perfect, it's just that communication stops at the door to the bedroom! Any hints on how to help me open up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): I have the same problem and something I have considered doing is buying one of those couples only games, like the board games they sell at Lover's Lane, or some sex shops. They have little games that you play with your mate, and you can express what you want done to you, and he can do the same..I think in some games you write it down, roll dice, etc..but if you got that game you could feel less weird about telling him what you want because you're simply going along with the game! Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, Me and my boyfriend have talked about it, and he is trying to help.
Hmmm, Those are actually really good ideas!
Now I can't wait til he gets home!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): peoriaman is so right! You could write him a love note and leave it by the bed, or write down a few little notelets and scatter them around the house, make it more light hearted, i bet he will love it and pounce on you. I think it would be very sexy indeed.
Why not run a bath after dinner and have candles along the side. Tempt him into the bathroom and gently strip all of his clothes off and let him to the same to you. OOOhhh, sorry ive got to go home now and run that bath.
I hope things work out for you two.
take care
xx
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