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writes:Hi all,I beg your pardon for interupting, but I am looking for some advice on behalf of a friend of mine. Her name is Charlotte, she has just recently turned 21 and she lives and works in Berkshire, England.She recently split with her ex lover in an age gap relationship. Her ex is in fact her immediate boss at work and they both work within the same department in their company. The company is a call centre type operation.Charlotte feels that everything is mutual between them and they get on well. She feels though that he left her because he felt too threatened about her age. That, as I understand, is the reason for the split.It is really affecting her and she wishes she can change his mind? She now hates weekends as she is not able to see him at this time too. She does not feel she can move on and the one thing she really wants is to be reunited with her ex.So this is where I come in. I put this question to you on her behalf as you are all experienced in terms of relationships? Is there anything you can suggest based on what you have read here that might be able to bring them back together? If you was in her positiion, what would you say to her ex to get him to change his mind?If you have any questions or need more information then I will be pleased to relay any requests to Charlotte. But please note, answers may take a little time to feed through.All constructive comments are welcomed and if it makes her happy by giving her the result she wants, it will be worth doing and worthy of your time.Lets hope for the best! Now it is over to you.Thanks a lot,Martin
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reader, MartinLondonUK +, writes (17 August 2007):
MartinLondonUK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,
Thanks for your thoughts, I will follow your comments on.
In response to your questions, I gave the name out as this might provide for a more personal response to messages, rather than "a girl who wants nothing more than to get back with her ex". Obviously it would be quite wrong to give out her last name!
In respect of her work place, it is still difficult to identify her because many companies have call centre operations anyway. The county where she lives is a wide area so still very difficult to find her. Disclosing the circumstances of her ex is of course relevent as it is where she works and that he is her immediate boss.
They get on well together, but she is in limbo as you can imagine. Don't forget, If anyone else has any comments then she would like to hear those too.
Thanks
Martin
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): He has given a reason for the split so why should he change his mind. I suggest she reads some of the advice on the internet about getting over a broken relationship, talk to her friends, find some company at the weekends and treat herself to things.Are you sure she is happy about her name and work details being put out over the Internet?
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