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writes: What can I do please? Who can I choose?I am 19 years. I loved a guy 6 years back and I didn't tell him. I heard that he loved me to from my friends so I tried to talke to him. Now I am talking to him.I thought that I will never talk to him in my life, coz that was school days. Now I'm talking to him, but the problem is that I have someone else in my life. I met him before I talked to the guy I love.The new guy he loves me too. The one I know from 6 years ago wants to marry me and I can't tell the one I met him now go away.What can I do? How can I act? Please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 I think you shouldn't be even considering marrying either of them to be perfectly honest. You think you loved this guy form when you were 13. And now you have talked to him you want to marry him. But you alrady have a BF who also wants to marry you?
You sound emotionally immature. You dont need to rush into marriage when you are barely out of childhood! Whta are you trying to prove? Anyhow, you have to pick one or the other. I would suggest that you pick the one you have to most feelings for. If you go with the one who has the most feelings for you then you wont be respecting your own wishes.
To be perfectly honest, and a little blunt, I would lose both of them and grow up, get a career, get a life and THEN think about finding someone to love and marry.
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