Am I wrong for wanting this relationship with my cousin to continue?

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ok - i met a woman one night and we intantly clicked. i fell in love with her, i have unbelieveable feelings for her and when im with her. when we would lay in bed i felt like nothing in the world could touch me. i am 28 she is 41. well i just found out that she is my first cousin. her dad and my dad share the same mother (not the same father) both of our parents were adopted so we have no family ties. the adoptions were sealed but my fathers mother wrote everyones name down for my aunt before she past. when we discovered this i went and told her. that night we both had a overwhelming desire to have "our one last time together". we did and then i laid there and begged her not to leave, she said she had to that this is wrong. watching her walk out that door was one of the hardest things i ever had to do, and she told me it was just as hard for her. i now cannot accept the fact that we are done now. we went into this not knowing and we fell with each other. if we end this now i will never see her as a cousin, and our familys will never meet. i know whenever i see her i will be filled with anger and intense pain. am i wrong for wanting this relationship to continue? am i a bad person for what we did and still want to do? i dont know what to do or think, please help!

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