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writes: i can only cum when i have hard, rough sex, i was with my ex partner for almost three years and she loved rough sex and didnt like me being gentle to her. anyway im now in a new relationship with a great girl and i find myself hurting her when we have sex, which turns me on, not intentionly hurting her but its the only way what makes me cum i find now, i keep stopping and apologising to her when she moans out but then find myself doing it rough to her again, i can last up to an hour doing this and in the end i cum,she said i made her feel sore afterwards but she still enjoyed it, she let me have anal sex with two nights ago and said i hurt her too much and doesnt want it again, what can i do, someone help. is it bad for liking rough sex? she says im fantastic in bed and im a great lover and always make her orgasm. i love doing it hard and rough, am i wrong for doing this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006): If she doesn't like it stop doing it. I think if this is the only way you can get off then you need to address some serious issues mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Um, hang on a second. Imagine if she wanted it hard and rough and it was hurting you? Imagine if she could only cum by chomping down on your penis until it bled. Sorry to be brutal, but I think you need to reign it in mate.
Of course there is nothing wrong with rough sex if she genuinely enjoys it but I'm not so sure thats the case here. And exactly why do you feel this is always necessary? I reckon you may have some self esteem problems to be honest. There is a lot to be said for sensual sex and you (and she) will be missing out on a lot of affection if you carry on in this manner. Try to moderate it mate, before you damage your girl's confidence, and not to mention her body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Mate I dont see whats wrong with it at all. My girlfriend has never said she actually likes it rough I just know she does. Sometimes Id hurt her, like going a bit too deep and that might turn her off just the slightest bit but like you I find its a serious turn on for me aswell!! I could cum going slow I just prefer it rough. Put it this way, both our girlfriends say we are fantastic in bed and that we are great lovers and we always make them orgasm so whats the problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Have to sayIi love it hard and rough, I like going for hours on end, I love moaning out loud and I love to bite (weird).
I think theres nothing wrong with it, some people like it gentle some like it rough. you've just got to learn how to be more gentle with you gf and enjoy it.
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