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writes: ok. i love this guy. We went out for almost a half of a year, and broke up. We havent gone out for like 7 months. We are kinda like friends with benefits, and he says that we cant go back out because he wants the trust of my father's back. I know that he loves me as well, but if i know that my dad wont trust him again, and if he says he wont go back out with me if my father doesnt trust him, should i waist my time loving him, and being a good lil girl so that he will want me back? I know tHAT I WOULD NOT EVER STOP LOVING HIM, BUT I JUST WANT to know if what i am doing is waisting my time
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): I would remind him that its about the two of you and not about your father. With time your father will come around. Its not a waste if he isnt using you. He may want the freedom and have your benefits. You need to decide if this guy is for real.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): He won't go back out with you because he is a pig enjoying both his freedom and your 'benefits'. He is using you. You are his doormat. The sooner you realise that you're being used the better.
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