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writes: hope you can help me I have a couple of problems 1) I am 28 years old and I am well endowed, all the woman I have gone out with have complained about the size of my member. I am in a steady relationship now and I want to marry my girl friend but she always complains about my member. How can I make sex enjoyable for her and me 2) She tries to restrict how much of my member goes into her but she always complains that I am going too deep. 3) It takes me a longtime to ejaculate/climax. My partner can climax three times or more before I do. It is frustrating for her as she thinks she cant turn me on. What can I do I am afraid she is going to avoid having sex with me and I could loose her. Thanks Eric
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reader, sexy_saz666  +, writes (6 December 2007):
i would say try this..
Start off in doggi but close her legs and put yours on either side ...you cant go in as deep and she will be that tight you feel everything that you climax better....Trust me this saved my relationship lol
message me if you want anymore xxxx
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reader, Erics +, writes (6 December 2007):
Erics is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the tips friends we have been trying some different spots and its getting very interesting. Positions we felt would make our situation worse are actually turning out to be great ones. Its still a bit early I am going to give it a few weeks then give you detailed feed back. I climaxed the first night last night did not but when i did I really exploded and we both felt great.
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reader, KittenMagic +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Pain isn't fun. If having sex this way hurts her, she won't feel turned on and may avoid sex altogether.
So experiment. You don't always have to have full intercourse so have an exciting and fulfilling sexual relationship. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to, i know it's frustrating but try and picture it from her point of view.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): She should think herself lucky!My boyfriend is very well endowed and i find its far comfortable for myself and enjoyable for him if we dont do it in the usual position.If i got on top, its easier because i can control how much of him goes in be, but because i grind and lean slightly forward, he stil gets stimulated enough to come.Also a good position is in the shower, standing up, he enters you from behind, that helps too.Any more help, feel free to message me, dont want to get too graphic on here!!
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (4 December 2007):
 YOu both need to experiment with different positions, YOu will find a way that is comfortable with both of you, plus the more you have sex, the more her body will change to accomodate yours. Just be gentle with her and take your time, if she gets tense because of your size, then it will hurt, gentle and slow will help her relax, meaning no pain.
So different positions, and gentle and slow. put her needs before yours for a while and you will be on to a winner in no time xxxx
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