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writes:A guy that I had been good friends with had to move for a job. Well he finally got his internet hooked up and we have been MSN messengering each other. I think from what he has been writing that he is interested in me as more than a friend. These are all the things he has said to me. The first was that he really missed me and then put a face crying next to it. When I told him that I had a dream about us messengering each other and asked if he ever had dreams about us he wrote " not that I can recall", but then put a smiley face blushing next to it. He also kept sending me winks and nudges. He said I was funny and kept making him laugh, and that I was a great person to know and talk to. We talked for about an hour last night. He wanted to know my work schedule so we could write each other today. Do you think from what he has been writing that he likes me as more than a friend? Or am I reading too much into this?
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reader, addison +, writes (12 March 2006):
 I think you are both missing each other. There is definately a bond between the pair of you. Saying that I think he feels unsettled and is relying on you as security. I don't think you should interpret these feelings he is having as anything more. By the sounds of things you arew keen on this guy and maybe there are some unresolved issues there and therefore you should perhaps phone him and talk to him about it.
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reader, juttandmeff  +, writes (12 March 2006):
There is always a temptation with on-line friends to say more than one intends when writing, and to see more than was intended when reading. It may be that he's missing home, and you are a familiar and comforting link to his 'old life'. You already know the answer: when you next chat, ask him if you can visit him in his 'new life', or invite him to yours, and see how things go. The only way you'll ever sort this out is face to face, bacause there just aren't enough smileys to convey the full range of emotions on-line!
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