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writes: heyhave been with my b.f for about 2 years. This morning in the kitchen he says there is a red rhinestone on the floor (from i guess could be clothing) he said it must be from one your dresses..i said i havent worn any dress(and i havent for a long time--its way too cold and i dont think any of my dresses that i have worn there have that) so he said it must be from a top you wore about a month ago..although i really dont remember any top having red rhine stones on it or anything..should i be suspicious??You know some guys try to trick you--basically why would he bring it up if he thought it was from another girl..so maybe they do just in case you do see it and say something..should i be suspicious over a small little thing or maybe it could have came from anywhere..like where you walk and maybe it got caught on his or mine pants and then when walked in, fell on the floor...am i being paranoid--should i forget it? his phone barely rings when i am with him so i guess thats a good sign..but do you think he was trying to trick me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Good grief! Is that it? Is that all? A rinestone on the floor? Seriously that makes you think he is having affair?????
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reader, carolanne  +, writes (16 February 2007):
no i dont think so. realisticly, wud u bring somethin ud seen on the floor if he hadnt seen it which would make him paranoid about u doin somethin behind his back. seriously ud avoid it as much as possible. im not sayin im right its just wat i think
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reader, stacey.m06 +, writes (16 February 2007):
is there any other reason why you feel you need to be suspicious? if this is the only thing that has occured then try your best to push it out of your head. i know its hard to forget and its the little things that wind you up the most, but dont let it drive a wedge between you both. however if you do notice anything different about him, then you need to have it out with him try to avoid checkin his phone or spying on him as this could cause further complications. and if you think he is being devious and trying to trick you then remember women are always better at this thing than men!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): I wouldn't worry about it unless he has given you other reasons not to trust him. It sounds perfectly innocent to me.
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