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Am I overeacting?

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Question - (17 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2011)
A female Dominica age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is a friend of mine that i really trusted...once she went to my boyfriends house to visit...she opened a conversation about our relationship and asking him questions about our relationship and staying stuff that i would never in a million years say or ask her boyfriend because what she and her boyfriend do is their personal business...she also told him stuff that wasn't true...the day after she called me saying that my boyfriend was saying stuff about me and told another friend of ours that my boyfriend was saying shit behind my back...my boyfriend and his friend told me what really happened and what she said and when i confronted her she lied about it...i believe my boyfriend because i dont think that my boyfriend and his friend has any reason to lie to me...my boyfriend told me that she wasn't talking bad about me but when i found out what she said, as my friend it really hurt me and the fact that she lied and said that my boyfriend was tlking shit about me...her stories also don't add up...she says one thing and then says another...i really feel betrayed...i caN forgive her but i dont think i can trust her again n be good friends like we used to be...am i overeacting? i really don't think that this should have happened, it doesn't make any sense

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

omg i can relate to this, i had a friend also who betrayed me in this way, she knew my email password, she was malicious and spiteful and used drugs, she lost her children recently because of her drug problem and she has personality desorder, she caused my and my daughter so much grief and got us in so much trouble with people online, i was very worried because i only knew half the stuff tha she use to write about us, she always lies, i gave her lots of chances to change but she didnt, ive cut her from my life now and never want to see her agan. she also tried splitting me and my partner up too by writing crap about us which was lies.

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