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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've already got my mind going on what I'm going to do next, but I'm curious to see if anyone thinks I'm making a huge mistake here.So a little over a month ago, I went to a movie with this girl that I had realized after about a year in class that I really liked after trading burned CD's and passing little joke notes from time to time. After a month were she was consistently busy with school work and other commitments, we went together to spend a day in the city. We had a lot of fun going to shops and a movie and finally ending with just eating ice cream on the beach. All along the way we just talked and joked and messed around, like pushing each-other around and leaning on each-other as we walked, nothing too flirty or serious, but maybe something. So finally on the way back to our home town, I gave her a book that she was very interested in but didn't feel comfortable buying, she really appreciated it and I felt glad to do it, I could tell she was surprised in a good way. On the way back we talked about hanging out and visiting one another at our respective colleges. Then I drove up to show her a nice view that I knew she'd like. After that I drove her home and hung around her house a bit to listen to music and talk. I realize I should have just told her then that I liked her, but I wimped out and I'm just going to as soon as possible. I need to tell her because I don't want to regret bottling this in and I know that there is someone interested in her that I believe she has perma-friend-zoned, but still... if life has taught me anything, it's that waiting is a bad idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): Do her (and perhaps yourself) a favour and tell her...!
A female friend was left crying after someone she's known for like 6 years finally told her his true feelings for her, but by then she was spoken for and had to turn him down but was left crying over it. Don't, potentially, put her through that too.
Tell her.
Take it slowly though, tread carefully, don't rush it.
Good luck!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (21 June 2012):
 I would think after the nice day you had, she would know you liked her. I wouldn't necessarily blurt it out, but I would continue to pursue her. Ask her to do fun things and continue to get to know her. If she has someone else, she'll end up telling you, but honestly, I doubt she does or she would not be doing things like this with you.
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