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writes:I an 15 and i like my friend i've talking to her for a few months we've gotten real close except she has a boyfriend so i can't ask her out the other day when she was leaving she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek she hugs me but she's never kissed me before am i looking too far into it or do i have a chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): hi im 11 and there is a girl at my school that i really want 2 go out with her but she's goen out with my best friend and me and that girl hang around with each other every day and i really wan't 2 go out with her SOOOO bad and iv knowen her than she knowen her boygriend.
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reader, adrsep4 +, writes (12 January 2008):
adrsep4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did learn something she does love her boy friend
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reader, adrsep4 +, writes (12 January 2008):
adrsep4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo the person that suggested i should talk to her about it, how do i do that?
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reader, Addie +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Well...I can see where your confused. I don't think your over thinking, no because its definatly something to consider. But I have kissed some of my guy friends, but I don't like them more than friend. it all really depends on the girl. Does she flirt with you? Like more than other guys? Look for stuff like that, that should give you an idea if she meant in in that way. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): a kiss on the cheek is a way of showing friendly affection to someone ( well I give my better guy and girl friends kisses on the cheeks where as just mates or quaintances i only hug or les)
it is maybe just a sign that u 2 are getting closer as friends
but dont rule out that she may like you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Hi im nearly 16, and some of my closest friends as boys, and i always hug them, but i dont have feelings for them, but kissing? ive never kissed any of the one who are just my friends, so i think she feels the same as you do just go slowly and speak to her about it, be careful though as she does have a boyfriend and both of you will end up getting hurt
good luck
love hannah xxxxx
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reader, tiebreaker  +, writes (11 January 2008):
i couldent say if you hav a chance or not, but theres no harm in being frendly towrds her. just dont think that she is the only one you can be friendly with. go out, be interesting and enjoy yourself. you never know if she sees you enjoying yourself she may want to join in, or someone else will.
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reader, naturesb +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Wow, I see how that can be confusing for you. Its hard to say, maybe you will have to feel out the situation as time goes on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): I don't think you're thinking too far into it at all, a kiss is a kiss. Especially seen as she has never kissed you before.
I think you should definitely take your time here, and don't rush in and get in trouble with her boyfriend. So give it a bit of time, and see how things go between you. I think since she kissed you, that her feelings for you are getting stronger. However, this must not be misread, as it could possibly just be because she is beginning to feel more comfortable with you. How long have you known her? Is this possible, that she's just feeling more comfortable, friend-wise?
But I would definitely see that time is the key thing, so keep being careful around her, and try to figure out if she's acting any more flirtatious than usual. But don't go getting into trouble, this could end badly - and even if she does like you a little, she won't thank you for a sticky end with her boyfriend.
In my opinion, you do have a chance. But seen as I don't know you, the girl, or her boyfriend, I wouldn't go trusting me too far and putting yourself in the deep end.
I hope it works out for you, good luck :]
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