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writes:so i've been exclusively involved with this woman for 8 months. we have recently for the past month have been intimately involved. the last time we made love we were at a resort for the weekend,after we have made love we sat had some wine smoked a cigarrete and out of the blue she told me no one has ever made love to her like that before. well i just reach out and gave her a kiss. here is the twist,i love this woman but i'm on a rebound relationship with her, she broke up with her ex-boyfriend,8 months ago. i realize i'm playing with fire,this week she is looking for closure so she can move on, and she assured me that i need not to worry, because she is not connected with this ex, like she used to. to my question. after she made that statement i ask her what she meant, the next day, and she replied that she was in the moment and felt a bit embarrased at that time to talk about it. wrong timing for me. Is there any chance this relationship to have a future?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Is there any chance for a future with her? Its hard to say.
She said she's looking for closure so she can move on. I wonder how she plans to go about achieving closure.......was it a bad breakup, do you know?
Perhaps if she was the one to end it, then right off-hand I'd say the chances of your relationship having a future might be better than if her ex did.
I think all you can do if you love her is to hang in there; be supportive and caring; give her space if she asks for it and be aware that it could all end..........would you rather "fight" for her knowing you might lose her, or give up now and bail???
One bright spot is that she did tell you you need not worry about it.......
Hope it works out the way you want!
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