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writes:Am i gay? Im a virgin at sex with girls, but find them sexy, i want sex with them, but wen i masterbate i only get turned on a pics of gay guys, i have visions of me having sex with guys and everything. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): You may or may not be gay, but if you are, don't worry, luv, it's still okay.
It's perfectly normal to go through phases where you aren't sure about your sexuality, it's just part of growing up. That may be all this is.
There's also the option that perhaps you're bisexual, are you attracted to girls as well?
Only time will tell. Wait until you get out of high school and to a college where people will be more accepting. Meet some guys and see if the attraction to men is deeper, then worry about the whole business of giving yourself a label.
No matter what though, know that people will accept you.
I've gone through the whole coming process myself and yeah, it can be awful at times, but great at others.
Here's my second email address if you need to talk: [email address blocked]. (Spammers: this is not my real account that I check frequently, don't bother spamming me)
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