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Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything until I am sure I am pregnant?

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Question - (27 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *reath_in writes:

so i woke up this morning with a predicament

you see i woke this morning and realized that i'm two weeks late for my period and to add to it the possible dad and i no longer speak to each other because hes now my ex.. to make it a little more complicated i refuse to tell him whats going on and give him the satisfaction that i need him because i still feel like i don't . I've decided to wait till the end of the month so i can give my period a chance to pop up until i go ahead and take a pregnancy test ... if i am expecting i will tell him but only if i'm 100% sure .because bringing him back into to my life will never give me the opportunity to fully get over our break up since he meant the world to me . on top of that i hear he's dating so i don't want to complicate things .

my question is ..am i doing the right thing here by not telling him right now and waiting till i'm certain or should i tell him and have him worry with me and make sure together ?

i haven't told anyone about my situation and its killing me but i want to keep this to myself until i have a reason to add someone else to the problem.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (27 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntYeh, wait until you are sure.. buy a pregnancy testing kit.

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