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writes:Two nights ago, I had a dream I was in the shower with another girl. We were performing sexual activity on each other. Now, I have a boyfriend whom I love, and I can't imagine my life without him, and I can't picture myself with a girl.. EVER! But, is it possible I'm bi sexual? or.. is a dream just a dream? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): You can't gather life-altering sexual orientation conclusions about yourself from a dream.
From a website:
"If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side."
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Yes, a dream can be just a dream. It doesn't necessarily mean anything more.
But have you ever questioned your sexuality before, or felt curious about being with a girl? If so, then like love-struckxo said, you may be curious, and perhaps this dream was you unconsciously thinking about it.
But if, like you say, you have no interest in women in that way at all, then it probably really was just a dream. I wouldn't get worried about it though! x
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (10 June 2009):
 You say, "Now, I have a boyfriend whom I love, and I can't imagine my life without him, and I can't picture myself with a girl.. EVER"
But then, ask if we think you are bi sexual? if you really mean what you say up there. Then, haven't you already answered the question yourself?
Bi sexual? probably not. Bi curious? probably yes.
You want to explore your sexuality, and there is no harm in that! Dreams and reality are too different things.
Good luck
xx
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