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Am I being used or played?

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Question - (1 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive being seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He says we are in a relationship but I dont feel it.Hes 26 and Im 19. We live really close to each other but I only see him about 2 days a week. When i first met him I was in a relationship but it was all but over between us. He told me I shoud finish him and go out with him so I did. He is always really nice to me he takes me out sometimes but lately I have just being going to his house since his granda went in hospital, thats who he lives with. He has a good job and is busy with work through the week.I dont really see him much on weekends either even when im not doing anything.

He texts me every day just to see how I am and what im upto. I only ever see him when he wants to see me. I only ever asked him once when I would see him and he said it would happen when it happens. So I have never asked him again. Ive being staying at his house when ive being there and although he never pushes me into sleeping with him we usually do. I feel like im being played or being used. I am holding back showing my feelings for him but its really hard.

Dont know what to do? See how it goes or talk to him. Ive never met his family or his friends and he is always adding girls on a net work sight and thats how we met.

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A female reader, Bahdbitch5starz United States +, writes (2 February 2011):

I think he is using you . But usually they won't txt ya everyday . But most likely he is.

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A male reader, df30 United States +, writes (2 February 2011):

After the 26 and your 19 comment I thought hes playin her for sure, you don't complain much, you give it up, you don't bug him to hang out even tho you live close.

Id say your gettin played but he texts you everyday maybe he just doesnt know relationships very well but my money goes to him using you like a piece of meat..and I'm a dude tellin you that.

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