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writes:I split up from my ex girlfriend a couple of months ago. While we were split up I met someone else.It was my ex who pushed me away saying she didn’t know how she felt about me if she just wanted to be friends or more.She claimed she had not been in long term relationships before so didn’t know how to define the difference between the two types of love (Friendship love or girlfriend / boyfriend love) I really don’t buy that myself.Our relationship lasted 11 months and she was always saying how thoughtful and caring I was.The ex has now sent me a card saying how much she misses me and wants to meet and talk if I will allow her back in my life.I don’t know if I should meet back up with her. Do you think I would be stupid meeting up with her again?The new relationship I am in is only a couple of weeks old so were not committed or anything at this time, but I do like her a lot so far.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Go back to her. See what she has to say; sounds like she's finally got it figured out and she wants you back. You guys had lasted for 11 months, you could last for more. You've only known this girl for a couple of weeks any way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Yes.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 I think it'd be okay to meet up with your ex, just don't let anything happen. You're in a relationship, no matter how old it is, you can't just go for another girl whilst you're with the current girlfriend. So meet with your ex but make sure it's just as friends, unless she's told you otherwise, then don't.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): You'd regret it if you opened a closed page. Move on, with the new gf or another.
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