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writes:I've been seeing this bloke for about 5 weeks now and really like him, he works a lot and has to travel quite a bit but am having trouble with the fact that I never know where he is from one day to the next and always contact him when he is busy, I haven't seen him for a week now and am a bit gutted coz we had a nice night out last week so I thought things were going somewhere. He promised me I would see him this Saturday then changed it to Friday and now has changed it to Sunday, I'm starting to feel like a mug and that he isn't as into me as I first thought, even though he calls me when he has had a drink and tells me he misses me and how much he fancies me.Am I being messed around???? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (11 August 2007):
 Possibly. Although he might well have a demanding job.
Its really hard to tell in the early days isnt it.
I would say go with your instincts. Im always saying that! But i honestly believe they can be spot on.
Ive been in touch with a guy for the last few weeks, we havent even met yet, but hes very vague with the times i hear from him & ive actually asked him today in txt if he is attached. Told him its no skin off my nose but i just want to know if my instincts are any good! ha
Obviously have no feelings for him because ive not even met him or spoken on the phone, only txt, but im curious to know because my instincts tell me hes not single.
As you have met this guy & like him, i would go with the flow for now. If you get on that well when you speak, amybe drop in a jokey 'i actually wondered if you was attached to be honest because your txt or calls can be a bit vague' keep it low key. Its not game playing but you dont wanna scare the guy off!
This guy i was on about has just txt back saying no, im billy no mates haha so maybe instincts arent the best thing! But if i was you in your shoes i would chill for now & go with the flow & see what happens.
Dont keep all your eggs in one basket in case it does go t*ts up.
Its a case of getting the balance right & its early enough days to give the guy the benefit of the doubt.
Good luck
C xxxxx
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