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Am I a lesbian or just not in love with my boyfriend?

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Question - (28 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Okay, this might seem like a fake question, but it's not.

I've been with a guy for over 4 years and only had another bf before him. In the last year or so I really haven't enjoyed etherosexual sex at all, like I just sat there hoping it would be over soon. I even expect my bf to behave like a girl, sexually- I don't want to go into details here, cos I don't wanna sound weird.

Anyways, I often get aroused by girls- either on TV or on the street and I often fantasize about women. Does this mean I am a lesbian? Is this just a phase? Am I just out of love with my bf?

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

TimmD agony auntHave you ever gotten turned on sexually by your boyfriend? Or any guys? If yes, then you're not a lesbian. Possibly bi, or just curious, but sometimes in relationships you just grow out of love. Maybe it's just time to move on from your boyfriend.

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