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writes:Am I really in love or just in love with the idea of being in love?I am having a relationship with someone for 3 years already and we have 1 child already. The problem is that often times, I am in doubt of my true feelings for him as well as his true feelings for me as well. Maybe I'm just too idealistic dreaming of an almost perfect relationship. It's just that he is insensitive, does not really show his feelings, not sweet among other things. I often times feel guilty for doubting him and I'm afraid that if this continues to go on, our child will be affected. How will i address my situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): You need to take stock of this relationship and see if these things are deal~breakers. And i wouldnt walk away without going over the things you feel you are missing with him and seeing if he is interested in making some changes. As i heard a popular radio host once say, "Is this the hill you want to die on?"
good luck hon, mal
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