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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, please please help me. Half a year ago I met a man and we started dating. Two months later, he became my boss. We've continued seeing each other but its so hard and we're both scared to death of getting caught. Me changing departments won't work at all because he's very high up so it's still not tolerated by company policy. He can't quit and neither can I. He shows no favoritism towards me and believe me, is even tougher on me than others. I don't ask him for any favors and we mutually agreed that we would not take advantage of anything. Sometimes though, he does give me these looks and I'm paranoid about people seeing them and interpreting them correctly. So where does that leave us? He told me he's fallen in love with me and though I'm not sure how I truly feel about him yet, I know that I care for him tremendously. What can we do to keep this under wraps? What shouldn't we do? Already, there has been a suspicion...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): So if they find out, would you both lose your job. If that is the case, does he mean more to you than your job at that company. If he does, I'd look for a job elsewhere. Normally in those situations it is just a matter of time before rumors start & people find out.
Maybe before doing anything drastic really find out company policy, a lot of people at my company are married. Usually it is not a problem, if they are in different departments.
It's almost impossible to keep it under wraps, you can never be seen out together, that wouldn't be much of a relationship.
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