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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we are both 22. The problem is he still does not want me to stay over at his house and his reason for this is that he is too young. I don't want to stay over a lot maybe just a couple of times a week and even this is too much for him. I feel like we aren't going anywhere and am so confused although he says he loves me I don't know what to do. Please help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 I THINK THE PROBLEM IS 1: HE IS USE TO HAVEING HIS OWN SPACE AND ENJOYS HAVEING HIS BED TO HIM SELF AT NIGHT AND 2: MAY BE HE DOESNT WANT A FULL BLOWN RALATION SHIP JUST A KIND OF CASUAL ONE WHERE HE AND YOU HAVE YOUR OWN SPACE AT TIMES WHICH IS A REALLY GOOD THING IF YOU GET TO CLOSE AND END UP STAYING A FEW TIMES A WEEK ADVENTUALLY IT TURNS IN TO STAYING ALL THE TIME AND THATS WHEN MAGOUR ARGUEMENTS STARTS YOU GET BOARD OF DOING THE SAME THINGS AND BEING IN EACH OTHERS WAY ALL THE TIME AND SPLIT UP ON BAD TERMS. WHERE AS AT THE MOMENT YOU SEPERATE AT NIGHT TIMES THEN WHEN YOU SEE EACH OTHER THE NEXT TIME IT MAKES IT MORE EXCITEING BECAUSE YOU HAVE BOTH MISSED EACH OTHER. TRUST ME ITS BETTER THIS WAY.
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