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writes: There is a boy I really like at school and I want to ask him out. I would, it's just that he is quite popular with girls and I'm scared that if I ask him out I might get bullied or teased. Have you got any suggestions on what I could do please? I think he likes me too.
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reader, PersonX +, writes (9 May 2005):
In my experience, you should ask him. You have to think 'What's the worst that could happen?' I fancied a popular guy at my school and I'm not exactly very popular myself. Admittedly I was more nervous than I'd ever been before, and only managed to e-mail him to tell him I liked him, but I at least managed that, something I never thought I could have done.I was rejected, but he was kind and sensitive about it, he told his friends but made them promise not to say anything, and they never have.I never thought I could have told someone I liked them, but I realise now even though he said no, it was the best thing I could have done. It's better to be rejected than forever wonder 'What if...?'Go for it, if you like this boy I'm sure you'll feel the same way I did.
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