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writes:advice on sex toys please/ never have used them but im a lesbian and my g.friend wants 2 use them on me. im a virgin but she dont know that and im scared if we have sex then she will find out so is this possible? also im scared 2have sex toys inside me how do u do it etc?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): thanks for all good answers im very greatful.
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reader, FoxyRoxy +, writes (10 April 2011):
The first question you should be asking yourself is why haven't you told your girlfriend you're a virgin? It will help you relax knowing that she'll know to take it slow, and be gentle. If you dont feel ready to have sex then dont push yourself! Only do what you feel comfortable with! As for sex toys, I wouldnt recommend any internal toys just yet, but if you really want to try a toy, or have her try a toy on you, try a bullet vibrator or something aimed at pleasuring your clitoris (google lovehoney.com they have a large selection of clitoral vibrators and toys and have a really discreet delivery system), if you do want to introduce internal vaginal play explain to your gf that you are nervous and ask her to take it slowly, maybe by just using a finger to begin with and use some lube, if this feels nice then ask her to stroke her finger in and out of you, whilst teasing your clitoris with the vibrator, and hopefully you'll have an orgasm!! Good luck!
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Hang on a second, calm down.First off its best if you explain to your girl friend that you are a virgin, she will be more understanding of your anxiousness.There is no 'proper' way to my knowledge to use a sex toy, just do what feels right and tell your partner what you like and don't like.All the best, Dataluke
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