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anonymous
writes:Okay so i guess i have a serious issue and i just want to get past this stage and no longer remember it because I have thoroughly regretted it long enough and each day wished it was different. so here goes.I am a male currently 18 years old and have a cousin that is approximately 4 years younger then me and both of us are male.... thing is the two of us have groped each other and even "tried" to give each other bjs over 4 or so years and "attempted" but failed at sex but it was all wrong and has stopped for a couple of months thankfully. thing is my cousin isn't fazed about it and well i just want a normal cousin relationship and forget this whole thing ever happened. so my question is can i forgive myself? and can i forget this whole thing because i am tired of torturing myself about this and just want to forget this situation as i am just trying to move on with my life as its just tiring.
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reader, AuntieSnap  +, writes (26 September 2010):
Hello honey,
Please don't torture yourself anymore. It is PERFECTLY natural for teenagers to experiment, they have been doing it since the beginning of time and will probabaly do it till the end of time. Your cousin seems cool with it and so should you. Learn to forgive yourself and don't look on this as something to be embarrased or ashamed about, rather, well it happened and we're none the worse for it. Draw a line and move on. Give it a year or two and you both will probably be able to discuss it openly and maybe even have a wee chuckle about it.
Hope this helps.
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