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A guy who has... "it!"

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Question - (26 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Can a guy have 'it' (you know the quality of confidence that you see perhaps just once or twice per year, that makes you highly aroused without him doing much of anything), be relationship material, WITHOUT being someone who likes parties, clubs, and bars (maybe he lives a quiet life)?

Any girls who are into parties, clubs, and bars here?

What else would every girl need to have in addition to 'it', for him to be relationship material?

Thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

It = a sparkle in the eye ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

Your definition of 'it' is mostly external stuff, and isn't 'it'.

Definition of "it":

1. Tall

2. Good Looking

3. Funny

3. Money

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

Definition of "it":

1. Tall

2. Good Looking

3. Funny

3. Money

4. Money

5. Money

Any combination of at least four of the above will get you "it" and all the confidence you need anytime you want it in bars, clubs, parties, restaurants, trains, boats, underwater, mountaintops, on donkeys or camels, drunk or sober.

If you lack the first two from the list, concentrate all your effort on securing the last three. If you can't do this either, sorry, better luck next life.

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