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writes:ok guys.. need advice. last night my friends and i went out to celebrate my graduation, there was 6 of us. 2 of the 6 had just finished a relationship of 1 year about a month ago... anyway... towards the end of the night we went into a great club and were dancing away when the 'former couple'.. lets say.. *Rachel and *Tony for name sake.. started to dissapear together.. tony didn't look happy and told one of the boys rachel was pestering him to get back together but he doesn't want to.. so she is crying infront of everyone so i take her in to the toilet and say to her 'the one thing i asked u not to do on my graduation was this, as it will cause upset, and it's my night' so she explains.. shouts a bit then comes back to dance. by this time the place was FULL.. we were sitting right in the light for all to see and the next thing they are kissing, she is moving closer to him, rubbing against him, trying to get on top of him.. we all turn away and the WHOLE CLUB was staring at her, making a full of her, everyone was laughing and pointing, so i tried to tell her, she ignored me everytime, too busy trying to get on top of him, so i pull her off, tell her im annoyed and storm out.. she comes after me and i tell her she has embarrassed me and my sister - who go there regularly, everyone was laughing and the security men were watching. she is saying i am blowing it all out of proportion!!! am i right to feel like this? 2 of my friends have phoned me today to ask me not to bring her back out with us again.. she thinks i am being out of order. i dont think so... what are your thoughts? thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): thank you for the advice. and yes it does reflect on me. since this i have had 2 of my girl friends on the phone to tell me how embarrased they were by her. this is the second time she has done this, last time the police had to take her home - i think she has a problem. 'the fact that u stormed out is weird'?? is it?? i dont think so, i was not prepared to stay there with my sister for all and sundry to see her making a fool of herself, and then for people to ask me about it - which has already happened. thanks for the advice!! x
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 I don't think it's that big of a deal, seriously. She can do whatever she wants and so she got a little randy in public? So what if people were laughing at her? How does this reflect on you? I have a gay best friend that makes an absolute ass out of himself everywhere we go, including hanging from the bars on subways upside down calling out "herpes" trying to embarrass me. You can't control her behavior, let her be herself and even though it's your night, you didn't have to let her ruin it, only you chose to do that. I think the fact you stormed out is more wierd than her hanging all over some guy.
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reader, sofiamorgan +, writes (22 June 2008):
 I personally think you have every right to be angry...I would be as well if a person I had specifically asked not to make big scenes promptly did so.
I would rethink your friendship with her...as from my point of view a true friend wouldn't do anything to upset you on purpose...like she did...
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reader, Wise Woman of the FOREST! +, writes (22 June 2008):
 you're right to be angry with her. After all she did ruin your night. I think you should find her a new man, so she doesn't cling to that one. Perhaps you should avoid bringing her and her ex together as they obviously have dangerous sparks between them at the moment... so i would keep them appart until "Rachel" gets over him.
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reader, Wise Woman of the FOREST! +, writes (22 June 2008):
you're right to be angry with her. After all she did ruin your night. I think you should find her a new man, so she doesn't cling to that one. Perhaps you should avoid bringing her and her ex together as they obviously have dangerous sparks between them at the moment... so i would keep them appart until "Rachel" gets over him.
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