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writes: I've fallen for a man 30 years older than me. We did start something up about 2 months ago after I found out that he liked me too and that he had done since he first laid eyes on me. I've never had a lot of attention from lads my age and because of previous experience, I've come to realise that lads only judge on whats on the outside instead of inside. He's been the first man that has liked me for...well me! He told me that he loves me and I thought I loved him too, but I can't help worrying about what people will think about the situation. Because of this worry, I've told him that I don't love him and we've split up, but now I'm wondering whether I've made the right decision or not. Should you turn your back on somebody that loves you?
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
Be honest with him. Tell him that things were moving too fast and you got scared when he said he loved you and ask if you can start again and take things slowly. If your love for him grows then you will both be able to support each other if there is any trouble in the future over the age gap. For the moment then don't about the age gap. If someone makes you happy and loves you for you (and you can do the same thing in return) then thats a great relationship
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