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Three years later and I think I still have feelings for her. Do I contact her?

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Question - (26 April 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2005)
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I think I still have feeling for my ex girlfriend. We broke up 3 years ago. I recently found her email address; should I contact her?

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A reader, maria +, writes (2 May 2005):

I think you should contact her because you have nothing to lose, but I wouldn't get my hopes up for something to happen as it has been three years and for all you know she MIGHT be perfectly happy with someone else. Contact her but with the attidude that you are just happy to catch up and speak with her so whatever happens then you will be prepared for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005):

I'm in a similar situation myself but as you have her email address go for it is my advice! Best of luck!

Chris

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005):

I say go for it. Keep it simple, just a "hi how are you?" and see what happens. No matter how it turns out, you need to tie up the loose ends, otherwise you will always have doubts and wonder "what if". As a note of encouragement my ex contacted me 5 years after we broke up - we are now happily married with 4 kids.

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A reader, doomed_in_mb +, writes (26 April 2005):

I know exactly how you feel. I think that single or not, you need to put your mind to rest and make sure that you do/do not still have feelings for this girl. Never doubt your heart because it could cost you your happiness. So just send her an email seeing how she is doing. Don't come on too strong, just feel it out first and then make your move if you must.. Hope I was of some help.

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