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Am I a virgin if I had a gay experience?

Q.   I'm 15 and I've been doing sexual thing with a guy friend that I know and he is about 4 years older than me. My question is last night I went to his house and we watched a movie and then we eventually ended up on the floor and with our clothes ...

A.   18 August 2005: I think you should really be careful if you are having encounters with a man 4 years your elder. And to answer your question, only you and your friend know if you are still a virgin because i don't know how far he penetrated into you. Good luck in ... (read in full...)

Am I cheating on my girlfriend it it's with another guy?

Q.   I'm been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a while and I have also been doing sexual thing with a guy and I dont know if that is cheating on her if it is with a guy???...

A.   18 August 2005: Personally i don't think it matters what sex you are doing sexual things with, it's still cheating. You should sit your girlfriend down and tell her what you have been doing. Honesty is the best policy right? Anyways... good luck with whatever you ... (read in full...)

I trust my boyfriend... I just don't trust the girl who's stalking him!

Q.   Recently I found out that this girl likes my boyfriend. I didn't know what to say when he told me, so I just laughed it off. A few days ago, I walked up to him and she was talking to him, and she gave him this note. I didn't think much of it, besi...

A.   27 April 2005: If you and your boyfriend are as close as you say you are, there would be no secrets between the two of you. And how can another woman giving your boyfriend a note not be your business..I would say it definitely IS YOUR BUSINESS. Confront him and ... (read in full...)

We've been going out for 2 years and she still won't introduce me to her family...

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and we haven't slept together yet. I'm beginning to also question whether she's a virgin like she says and I don't know if there's a way to find out apart from just asking. We're both 22 and she has rece...

A.   27 April 2005: If this has been going on for two years, you must be the most patient man I have ever heard of. If she has not had sex with you and says she is a virgin, leave it at that and respect her. If she has not introduced you to her family, on the other ... (read in full...)

He's twice my age, but I love him and my family are all against us...

Q.   hello! I am a 17 year old female andI have started dating a 34 year old. Everyone is against us but I love him. My family are making me choose between them and him but they have never been there for me when I needed them and we don't get on at all. ...

A.   27 April 2005: It's really tough for a 17 year old girl to lose her parents so you have a really rough time ahead of you. If your boyfriend loves you as much as you say he does, how about suggesting that you two just stay friends until you are an adult? Or how ... (read in full...)

Lately, my b/f says he's too tired for sex...and it's getting to me.

Q.   I'm 17 & my boyfriend is 23. We are both young yet we don't seem to be having much sex lately & it's starting to get to me. I want it but he is always tired & it's getting me down. He says it's not that he doesn't want me it's just he is tired. ...

A.   27 April 2005: Does your boyfriend work so much that he is always tired? If so, I suggest testing him. Get on top of him at night and if he tries telling you no, tell him to just lay back and relax so you can do all the work. If he still denies sex, then you know... (read in full...)

If my boyfriend loves me like he says, why is he also going out with another girl?

Q.   I am only 13 but I am in love with someone. He says he loves me too by telling me this, but he is going out with another girl. What I am confused about is if he loves me then why is he going out with this girl? I don't know what to do and I need maj...

A.   27 April 2005: Oh my dear girl...Why would you want someone who is also dating someone else? You are only 13? You don't even know what love is yet so why are you already leting someone push you around and treat you like crap? If you continue like this at such a ... (read in full...)

He travels a lot and could be getting up to no good. I'm having trouble trusting him, too...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend eighteen months. He is a business man and tends to travel a lot. Just recently he got a new phone and he gave me his old one which had messages on, which had proven he had cheated on me while he was away. I confront...

A.   27 April 2005: In my mind, cheating is the worst pain in the world. So if he really loved you, he would have never done that to you. If he will admit to kissing a girl, speaking from experience, he has done a lot more than that. P.S. Scott Peterson was a "travell... (read in full...)

Should I stay in my long-distance relationship, or take a chance with someone new?

Q.   Do I stay in a long distance relationship that's lasted 17 months, so far? The first few months he was local. I know him really well and we love each other. Or do I go out with a guy I've known since October last year, who I know reasonably well? He ...

A.   27 April 2005: My only advice to you is follow your heart. If you trust the long distance relationship you are in now, kudos to you because they rarely last 2 months. You really need to sit down and make a list of what you like about each of them and compare....I ... (read in full...)

Though he told me he missed me and wanted to try again, it's me that does all the chasing...

Q.   I was with my ex for 9 months and we were so happy together. He moved in with me and my family, and nothing could have been better. We then started to argue about silly things constantly. Then we would make up and our love seemed to be much str...

A.   26 April 2005: I think that you need to forget about this guy. If you two only talk when you make the effort, he is laughing because he knows that he holds you in his hand. I think you should move on, even though it might seem impossible, but believe me, i have ... (read in full...)

Three years later and I think I still have feelings for her. Do I contact her?

Q.   I think I still have feeling for my ex girlfriend. We broke up 3 years ago. I recently found her email address; should I contact her?...

A.   26 April 2005: I know exactly how you feel. I think that single or not, you need to put your mind to rest and make sure that you do/do not still have feelings for this girl. Never doubt your heart because it could cost you your happiness. So just send her an email ... (read in full...)

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