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Two bad experiences with cheaters and now I can't help worrying about my current girlfriend!

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Question - (1 June 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2005)
A , *uan writes:

Okay, here is my problem that has been troubling me for some time now, and I am glad I have found such a nice place where I might hopefully be able to resovle my problem!

Almost 2 years ago, I was shocked to find out my girlfriend was cheating on me, I was with her for nearly 3 years and it hurt like hell, but as most normal people would do, I ended it.

After I got that out of my system, I moved on. And was with someone for 6 months, and caught them cheating on me!

Now I am with someone, and have been for 5 months who seems absoutly amazing. Sweet and caring and everything I could possibly wish for, I think I have found my soul mate! But due to my past expeirences with cheaters, I keep fearing this will happen again, and each night when I am lying in bed, I keep thinking that maybe she is cheating on me too. She keeps telling me she's not, and never will and so on, but I have heard this all before!

How can I rebuild my shattered trust in females? I don't want to spend my life worrying about my heart being broken again!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2005):

well im not real sure but remember not all girls are a like .. and if you really care about her you will trust her ... im sure she doesn't want 2 hurt you but if you keeep douting her that might run her away so be careful and try not 2 think bout the past think bout what you could have in the futre with this girl

best of luck

jess x x

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