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writes:my 18th birthday is coming up soon. previously i had been looking forward to spending time with my entire family as some of my other family members live overseas. unfortunately, my trip got cancelled and i was devastated as i was really looking forward to a good holiday break and birthday with my brother and my cousins. ive been hating school all of this year to the point where i wish i could just leave this country because of so called 'friends' bringing unnecessary drama into my life. when i think of my real friends i can say i have maybe a handful. i was so dissapointed over my cancelled trip and i had told my boyfriend all about my feelings about this, about school.and i have recently found out that he wont even be there most of the night because of a driving lesson. after telling him how i was not looking forward to my birthday anymore and how i didnt want to spend it alone, im really shocked and hurt that hes doing this. i have expressed this to him but he just says, dont worry ill still see you. i dont know if im being over clingy or childish, but this really hurts me. im not sure what to do now.
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reader, Klara  + ♥, writes (25 June 2009):
you'll be fine hun. birthdays are overreated and i know you think this is the last thing you want to hear it can be true. Not every thing you want in life works out, and sometimes things can be a bit of a letdown...and it hurts in such circumstances.
its a shame your bf can't make it the whole time, and justifiably you are upset. if it were me i would have thrown a tempertantrum, but you are a bit younger than me and i don't know the depth of your relationship or the situation.
Try make the most of it. Go have coffee with some cool friends, or random friends, or go to a theme park, or movies or just have a girly time.
School can really suck at times and the feelings you are feeling , really once you are older you will find that many people have shared these same feelings. just try get a bit hypo and inspire some friends to lift their game and do some random things with you on your day.
it will pass.. trust me on that one as i've been there
but.
most importantly..
HAAAAAAAAPPPPPY 18TH BIRRRRRRRRRRRTHDAAAAAAAAAAAAY IN ADDDDDDDDDDDVAAAAAANNCEEE FROM BUDAPEST HUNGARY!
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reader, kelleeashton  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 im pretty sure he doesn't realize how bad your hurting and you are being a little clingy. your plans got ruined thats not his fault. he needs to put his driving lesson first and you need to support him in that and see if maybe you can re do your birthday the night after. i think your a little overly stressed about it. message me if you need to talk :)
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