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writes:I'm now a 15 year old teenage boy and I'm in love with a straight guy which is our poultry boy, I just can't help the fact that I'm in love with a 26 year old straight guy, I've been asking my friends about this matter, well they told me that maybe this thing for me is just a one great infatuation. I never knew that I'd be feeling this way, because before I just wanted him in bed, well I just can't stop myself from loving him and I can feel the fulfillment of the love that I've been wanting for the past 4 years.Please help me how to stop this or either to deal with it, his being scared because once my dad discovers that I'm in love with him, I don't know the problem that I'm about to face of. I just can't stop loving him. I know its wrong yet we're not of the same level. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): Your other answerer is absolutely correct. I've fallen for a few gay girls and it's just awful when you're crushing on someone and there's absolutely no way to seduce them because their sexual interests will never allow what you want. The best thing you can do is accept the impossibility of a relationship. With maturity and age you'll even begin to appreciate the bittersweet irony of crushing on an incompatible person, but for now, just take no for an answer, and don't bother asking the question. Sexual orientation is non-negotiable, as I'm sure you're aware. Coming on to a person who you know is incompatible would make you look like a real jerk and destroy any friendly rapport you have with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): One of the most difficult things of being a young gay male is falling in love with straight males. There are so many more straight males in the world than there are gay males and it is difficult, if not impossible, to fall for a few of them. I think you need to listen to your friends. This is not love. This is an infatuation, a crush, a longing. You cannot fall in love with someone that you have no relationship with. You can, however, fall in lust. My advice to you, if you haven't already done so, is to seek out other gay people your age. Doing this could leave you less lonely, less vulnerable to inappropriate crushes.
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