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writes:Hi all...Im a 20 something guy and want to get female opinions on something. I know usually 'guy gets girl tel number and it goes from there' - but 3 days ago a situation happened - where I helped a girl in a tricky situation, and followed it up by writin down my tel number and popped it in her door.So she has my number but I dont have hers. Note was just 'if u want to stay in touch / text me etc.'. How long before she might reply/text me back? I know it would look bad if she did straight away. But are we talking days ?? a week or even 2? Even if she has a bloke, whats the chances she'd get in touch as a mate etc ?Females replies to this - would be great.Rgds,Dave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): If it was me I would have text if only to say thank you for help.
You will just have to wait and see, if she's interested in any way she will be in touch.
If not, well you used your initiative but,this time, it failed
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): This totally depends on the girl and how busy she is in her own life, it could take days, if she's interested. If she has a boyfriend she may not reply at all whether she liked you or not, and then if she does it would more than likely be for friendship.
Also you don't have her number so I would say do not wait around for her to call you, put her out of your head and do not call to her place, she might think you're a stalker, You'll have to leave it. If she does call you great you can take it from there, but if not after a week take it that she's not interested.
Look on it if its mean't to be she will call, if not you havn't lost anything, so no big deal. That was nice of you and you are to be admired for taking the initiative to drop her a note if you liked her, but don't wait around. You've done all you can.
Good Luck.x
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