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Do I throw away my FWB 1.5 year relationship?

Q.   I've been seeing.. Well, more like a FWB to a man we'll call J for about a year and a half. I care a lot about him but our relationship has never really gotten deeper than sex. Well for J it seems. I've mentioned that I would like us to be more, but ...

A.   27 December 2011: am in the same situation as you, fwb for 1.5 years. you are just convenient for J, and if he there is a chance of him realising your worth, it will only be when you leave him. You have a real chance of happiness with P, take it. J's not going an... (read in full...)

It's been 2 years and I still miss my ex

Q.   I've been split with my ex wife for almost two years now. We were together for a long time (decades) and have a child together so we talk/see each other often. I did not want the divorce, but I have tried to move on. I stil think about her and ...

A.   27 December 2011: I think its difficult because the divorce was not your choice. also ive been told that the body has a memory too, so its not just about getting her out of your head. the only thing that worked for me was to start seeing other people, and hopefully ... (read in full...)

I wish I was beautiful and that guys gave me attention, but sadly I'm not like that

Q.   I'm ugly, and that means guys pass me by, ignore me, don't approach me, or when they do it's obviously a momentary thing just 'cause they're desperate for sex (believe me, I can tell, I've learned to tell!). My friends are really pretty, and they ...

A.   26 December 2011: anyone can be beautiful, its all made up. You can do something with your hair ( extensions, colour), get someone to show you how best to do your makeup dress nice always little sexy and Voila! You will be beautiful. But that alone doesn't work. It... (read in full...)

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

Q.   I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

A.   25 December 2011: just want to say thank you for your support and words of wisdom. i hope i have the courage to move on. ... (read in full...)

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

Q.   I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

A.   24 December 2011: Thanks i know ur right, if only we cud keep heads nd heart in sync.... (read in full...)

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