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Hello, I am currently living in Fort Riley Kansas, am a Medic in the United States Army married to another medic in the Army. I like basically doing everything and anything, if my friends mention it, usually I'm game. I like reading, writing, and running.

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Should I move bases to be with my future wife?

Q.   Hello, I am a 22 year old male in the army. I met my fiance' in Iraq. It was strange because I use to and she use to look down those because people always rushed them. We started it by seeing where it would go, we both agreed to this. We deployed ...

A.   16 December 2008: I am the original poster of the question, I am finally going to be moved to my wife in Colorado! Her deployment is now in May, I'll be deploying with her. :-)... (read in full...)

Does anyone know what this discharge is?

Q.   I am having this "jucky" discharge from my vagina, its red/dark red/brown thick discharge it doesnt smell and im not hurting. Does anyone have a clue of what it is? ...

A.   16 September 2008: The reason I asked about being sexually active is sometimes an abrasion can happen and you can bleed, but you are bleeding more then that, but this much bleeding can go from infection, to an STD, now what I mean is, there are a number of things that ... (read in full...)

Is it his behavior or am I noticing things that aren't really there?

Q.   Hi. I recently auditioned for a show and got in and I went to a rehearsal and we had to go round the room and meet people we haven't spoken to before and find out what part they were in the show and a bit about themselves... a get to know you sess...

A.   16 September 2008: I would say this isn't you looking for things that aren't there, if it's just like you said, then there is some attraction that he has towards you, even if he doesn't intend it to go anywhere, he was still flirting with you, so again, I would say ... (read in full...)

Are we dating if he hasn't come right out and said that? I met him online.

Q.   ok i met a guy on a dating site we when out like three times we kiss on the third day. then one nite him ant i we whent out with my friends and one of my girl friend liked him.so one nite that i whent to her house i left my cell phone and she got ...

A.   16 September 2008: well he probrobly assumed you two were since you two kissed,though obviously since you weren't aware of it then you aren't. Do you want to date him, if so ask him what his thoughts are and if kissing meant you two are together. If you don't want to ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know what this discharge is?

Q.   I am having this "jucky" discharge from my vagina, its red/dark red/brown thick discharge it doesnt smell and im not hurting. Does anyone have a clue of what it is? ...

A.   15 September 2008: When did you first notice it? Have you been sexually active recently? dark red/black thick discharges could be old blood. I highly recommend going to a doctor.... (read in full...)

How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm more important than anything else and to quit smoking?

Q.   my boyfriend likes to smoke but i dont want him to smoke.every now and then so i permitted him to smoke once in 2 months..but he cant wait...for him smoke is more important than me..i said him that i dont need him if he cant live without ...

A.   15 September 2008: I'm a smoker and my fiance' doesn't like me smoking either. I want to quit and have been trying, but it's hard. Very hard, the physical addiction last for 3 days, after that it's a mental addiction, and that's a life long battle for some. For ... (read in full...)

We had unprotected sex last week. So after 7 days into it... would she be showing signs already that she might be pregnant??

Q.   Hello, so, I am engaged, with a woman that I absolutely love, care for, and means the world to me. Randomly today she told me she was going to take a pregnancy test, she said it was nothing and no reason why... well I finally got it out of her. ...

A.   8 September 2008: Thank you for the reply's, she took a home preg. test and it was nagative, she's taking one the week after to make sure. THANK YOU AGAIN!... (read in full...)

Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?

Q.   right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that ...

A.   6 September 2008: This can result in something serious, like blood not getting to your toe, or an infection like trench foot, see your doctor. It may not be serious though. Next time see your doctor ASAP when something like this happens.... (read in full...)

I married too young but is it too late to get out?

Q.   Hello, I'm 20 years old and I got married when I was 18. I have never been on my own and I've always had to depend on my husband. Now after just two years of marriage, we don't talk any more because if we do we argue. He always talks about how ...

A.   6 September 2008: Talk to him about marriage counseling. That actually can help alot. You obviously want to still make the marriage work, if he does then talk to him about that. ... (read in full...)

Should I move bases to be with my future wife?

Q.   Hello, I am a 22 year old male in the army. I met my fiance' in Iraq. It was strange because I use to and she use to look down those because people always rushed them. We started it by seeing where it would go, we both agreed to this. We deployed ...

A.   6 September 2008: Hello, I am the original poster, and I wanted to thank you all for your comments. We both decided to marry next month, and will be putting in the packets to be together. After this next deployment, I'm out of the army. keep in your prayers or best ... (read in full...)

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