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How do you get over a bf that you know you can never have again?

Q.   how do u get over a b.f that u can nvr have again ok i bet u want the story in 4th grade i had the best b.f named eric but on his b.f after a yr we dated he died n im 13 now n in 7th grade n its hard for me to date but i do but everytime i think of ...

A.   22 January 2007: we're all guilty of taking guilt out on ourselves huh? try to stop being so harsh on yourself, find a good friend who would listen to everything. i know it's hard, but it's not your fault that he passed away. i'm sure you know this logically, but ... (read in full...)

She's afraid to date me because of the risk of losing our friendship! What can I do?

Q.   my best friend is female nd i care about her so much. i now find my self liking her more than a friend, wen i tld her i want to be with her she said it would not work because she does not want to lose a friend. i love her so much as a friend and ...

A.   21 January 2007: reassure her that you would always be there for her and would handle things well if you break up ~ ... (read in full...)

Ready for divorce?

Q.   How do you know when your ready for DIVORCE? Both financially and emotionally?...

A.   21 January 2007: do you have children? make sure they get support from both parents if you do, and be nice to your spouse. if you don't then, if you're asking this question but is not sure, maybe you should have a talk with your spouse to get some things sorted out ... (read in full...)

How do you get over a bf that you know you can never have again?

Q.   how do u get over a b.f that u can nvr have again ok i bet u want the story in 4th grade i had the best b.f named eric but on his b.f after a yr we dated he died n im 13 now n in 7th grade n its hard for me to date but i do but everytime i think of ...

A.   21 January 2007: the fight was a long time ago but your guilty feelings and longing for him may be what's bringing it all back to you. it's time to free yourself from self torment...i know it's hard and mayseem impossible, but maybe you can write in a diary or write ... (read in full...)

I told her about my affair with a married women and she was upset! Have I lost her?

Q.   I like a girl but i don't know if she will ever feel the same as i upset her before. I first met this girl about five years ago. She was a friend of my sister and we started going out mainly as a group of four and although we seemed to get on...

A.   21 January 2007: honestly i don't know. this is complicated and despite everything you need to know to take care of yourself. maybe you should just go for it and ask her out - go get coffee or something and talk about what is making you uncomfortable to her and ask ... (read in full...)

I want to forget about her and move on but I still love her! Any advice?

Q.   Hi, could you please help me with this….. I have been in relationship with my partner for year and half. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I kept saying to myself no o...

A.   20 January 2007: it takes time, time to, in a way, grieve, and to clear up your emotions - confusion anyone? but yeah, and then, when you're ready, maybe take it easy, open your doors to meet someone new. you deserve love - and under the heading'love' comes respect, ... (read in full...)

I don't trust my fiance, but we're getting married in February! Please help.

Q.   I just cannot trust 'George'. I have been in a relationship with him for the past 2 years. We broke up once last July when he got engaged to another woman. We only split for a couple of months... and he called off his engagement with that girl ...

A.   20 January 2007: it must be hard for you - knowing that you're getting married in February. it may seem like everything's coming around you and closing in - but you still have time! would it be better to blow it off now than later when you're married? it's better to ... (read in full...)

I don't trust my fiance, but we're getting married in February! Please help.

Q.   I just cannot trust 'George'. I have been in a relationship with him for the past 2 years. We broke up once last July when he got engaged to another woman. We only split for a couple of months... and he called off his engagement with that girl ...

A.   20 January 2007: it must be hard for you - knowing that you're getting married in February. it may seem like everything's coming around you and closing in - but you still have time! would it be better to blow it off now than later when you're married? it's better to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex wife won't leave us alone! We just want to be left in peace. I can't take the pressure!

Q.   Hi Everyone, I Would like some help please, as i am really getting upset. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this week and i love him so much. My problem is his ex wife, she won't leave him alone. I was best friends with my boyfriend for ye...

A.   20 January 2007: definitely all the best...after all this time! and waiting through his marriage.... you're a strong person im taking, but that doesn't mean that things ouldn't eventually be able to wear you down to the bone. take lotsof care, and yes, like the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex wife won't leave us alone! We just want to be left in peace. I can't take the pressure!

Q.   Hi Everyone, I Would like some help please, as i am really getting upset. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this week and i love him so much. My problem is his ex wife, she won't leave him alone. I was best friends with my boyfriend for ye...

A.   20 January 2007: definitely all the best...after all this time! and waiting through his marriage.... you're a strong person im taking, but that doesn't mean that things ouldn't eventually be able to wear you down to the bone. take lotsof care, and yes, like the ... (read in full...)

I love my professor but don't want to hurt my bloke! You're the only people I can tell about this.....

Q.   I'm in love with my professor, problem is i'm already attached with someone else. I'm quite clear about the situation and what will be the consequesces if i cross the boundary to clearify with him. He is over 30 yrs old, and i'm 21. He is single...

A.   1 December 2006: some things to consider: do you have a job? what are his standards? because these are the things that may ruin your relationship if you proceed to advances. all due to a guilty conscious... iknow what im talking about. guilty consciouses..... (read in full...)

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