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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my best friend is female nd i care about her so much. i now find my self liking her more than a friend, wen i tld her i want to be with her she said it would not work because she does not want to lose a friend. i love her so much as a friend and more i know i would never stop being friends with her if we were seeing each other, how do i make her see this? i think she likes me even if its just a little bit because of the little things she does and says to me. what can i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Going on my own personal experience, you'd probably better going your seperate ways now, as difficult as that may seem. If you have feelings for her that are beyond friendship, you will always be expecting more from her than you will get, and you will most likely end up losing her friendship anyway at some point. Maybe not this year, maybe not next, but sometime... I say this because I have experienced it myself. The whole platonic thing can only work in a case where neither partner has any vestige of physical attraction to the other. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it is what I have come to realise the hard way and you probably will too.
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reader, zecky +, writes (21 January 2007):
reassure her that you would always be there for her and would handle things well if you break up ~
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Give her time. You have already told her how you feel. Much better to have her as a friend than have nothing atall.
Good Luck !
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